Contrary to popular belief, the solution to your conflict is NOT "better communication skills"
There are two essential components we need to address to heal your hurting relationship:
1. You must have a "secure base", a sense that the other person has your back and will be there for you no matter what. This is the foundation of relationships, and without this, they will not hold up in times of stress.
2. You must understand and change your relationship pattern. All couples in distress engage in a problematic "dance". While the topic of your arguments may change, your underlying "dance steps" stay the same (he does "X" which causes her to do "Y" which in turn causes him to do "Z"... sound familiar?). To improve your relationship, I will empower you to recognize, heal from, and change the patterns in your relationship.
I'm passionate about helping motivated couples who are invested in improving their relationship. I have extensive training in Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy, the most effective, empirically studied couplestherapy in existence.